Why Husbands Cheat

Posted on December 21, 2007 in Marriage Proposals, Tips for A Wife

It is in the human nature to cheat, but nobody ever likes himself when he cheats nor does anyone cheat without some hesitation. Bringing this hypothesis into marital lives, does it mean that husbands cheat on their wives for ample reasons?

Why exactly do hubbies dupe their better halves?
One in five wives must have experienced this unfavourable fact. There are a variety of reasons which lead a husband to be unfaithful. Here are some of the main factors which cause men to choose the wrong direction.

Bored with routine – It is common for men to experience a sense of boredom in the middle of their married lives. This may be out of pressure in office, being fed up with household responsibility etc. And when they get a golden opportunity at this point, they don’t generally like to miss it.

Has a Detective wife – Some men, unfortunately have to put up with wives who, given a chance spy on their husbands and harass them to an extent where they dread coming home. When they can’t take the suspicion any more, they really do it.

Not Satisfied with What They Get from Family -

Cheating husbands always think that the grass is greener on the other side of the hill – just like to three billy goat gruffs did! For some reason they think that something is or has been missing from their lives or they feel that they have not fulfilled all their hopes, dreams or ambitions throughout their lives so far. So now is the time to try and change all this by cheating on their wives and they may achieve some of the goals that were missed over the years.

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2 Responses to “Why Husbands Cheat”

  1. christine fleming on January 3rd, 2008 10:36 pm

    my husband and i have felt we are soul mates and have always been honest in our relationship. he had gone through tough times and stuck together because we loved each other so much.
    he travels out of country a lot and told me himself that he slept with a girl he couldn’t resist (chinese). he said he feels guilty about it and he had to tell me. he was acting strange for three months and i thought something like this happened but waited for him to tell me himself. he says he still loves me and he doesn’t want to hurt me and knows he won’t do it again and thats why he ended up telling me. i am so sad and feel like i am dead everytime i wake up. i am not myself since he told me and find myself crying while sleeping next to him. he doesn’t know. he see’s that i am not my happy silly self and is worried i am going to leave. we are raising two boys who are not from us and i don’t want to see them go through anything. i can’t tell anyone because i don’t want family and friends to judge. my friends always say that we gave them hope because their relationships wouldn’;t work.
    i’m so disappointed and thats why i feel i wake up dead every morning.
    chris

  2. christine fleming on January 3rd, 2008 10:36 pm

    my husband and i have felt we are soul mates and have always been honest in our relationship. he had gone through tough times and stuck together because we loved each other so much.
    he travels out of country a lot and told me himself that he slept with a girl he couldn’t resist (chinese). he said he feels guilty about it and he had to tell me. he was acting strange for three months and i thought something like this happened but waited for him to tell me himself. he says he still loves me and he doesn’t want to hurt me and knows he won’t do it again and thats why he ended up telling me. i am so sad and feel like i am dead everytime i wake up. i am not myself since he told me and find myself crying while sleeping next to him. he doesn’t know. he see’s that i am not my happy silly self and is worried i am going to leave. we are raising two boys who are not from us and i don’t want to see them go through anything. i can’t tell anyone because i don’t want family and friends to judge. my friends always say that we gave them hope because their relationships wouldn’;t work.
    i’m so disappointed and thats why i feel i wake up dead every morning.
    chris

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