Lack Of Sexual Intimacy In Marriage

Posted on April 4, 2008 in Marriage Problems, Tips for A Husband, Tips for A Wife

Almost all couples, go through the problem of sexual intimacy in the course of their marriage. Over a period of time, one tends to take the other for granted.

Thorny issues of frequency, satisfaction, types of sexual activity, and the role of physical intimacy, comfort level, frequency of love making etc come to the forefront affecting the relationship.

So much so after a period of time love making is all about having sex and not making love, its not about intimacy and romance anymore but its all about pleasure seeking. Making the whole concept of love bland and more of a routine.

What can one do about it ???

Talk about the issue openly, there is no point being frustrated and boiling over the issue internally.

Talking about your sexual relationship, your passions, your cravings, your desires and the way you want to go about making love , will arouse your partner greatly and make him/her more open to your view point.

Passion can also be fueled by “newness.” “Do something new and exciting with your partner,” Taking a cooking class together or arranging a mystery date,saying sweeet nothings, massaging each other, doing small mundane tasks together can help strenghten your relationship.

Sense out your partners needs and being sensitive to his wants will help you develop a stronger bond with each other.

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