How to Break Pregnancy News to a Disinterested Husband?

Posted on June 10, 2008 in Marriage Problems, Tips for A Wife

In case, your husband is not mature enough or in other words gets too nervous to actually feel unhappy about the whole thing, then here are some tips to help you.

Create the “feel good” factor by talking to him about babies and how life is going to be wonderful with children in and around the house.
Tell him about how good it feels if someone is going to call him “Daddy”.
Convince him that everything is going to be just fine and that taking up responsibility is fun, especially when it’s that of a kid.
Make him think of his childhood and tell him how he can revisit his childhood with his baby.
Most important is to avoid forcing the idea of a baby to him. Even if you do not succeed in convincing him do not worry. He might as well be forced to change his opinion when he sees the child.

Whatever may be the way, you are planning to crack the news it is necessary to be happy yourself. If he contributes to your happiness, well and good, if not, then don’t be sad. Motherhood is the best gift of God, and now that you are blessed with it, be happy.

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