Are You Jealous Of Your Partner

Posted on July 10, 2008 in Tips for A Husband, Tips for A Wife

It is really nice when a partner shows his or her feelings of possessiveness over you. You feel wanted and really nice. There is a warm feeling that grows inside making your insides swell with joy.

Sometimes, when this possessiveness exceeds its limit, it tends to get annoying. The possessiveness tends to be more selfish and most of the time springs up from a kind of jealousy.

It is important that one work up on this, because this feeling eats you up inside leaving you bitter and the feeling of possessiveness that one shows comes out of hate rather than love.

How do we know if we have this kind of jealousy growing in us? Here are some signs that will help you identify if you are a jealous spouse or not.

1) You feel jealous when your partner is talking to someone else; you harbor this feeling and never let your partner come close to you. This you think is a way of punishing your partner.

2) You feel your partner is hogging the limelight and refuse him/her to go to a party or a gathering.

3) You do not allow your partner to dress up in a particular way because you fear that he/she may look very good and attract all the attention.

4) You feel insecure when people come to talk to your partner and not you.

5) You always are angry with your partner for no reason. The very sight of him/her makes you feel irritated.

6) You need continuous reassurance of your partners love.

7) You constantly keep questioning your partner about his or her whereabouts.

8) You feel depressed and hopeless always.

9) You feel a need to distance yourself from your spouse and begin to seek love elsewhere.

10) You have this constant urge to put your spouse down and hurt them.

If these are some issues that you are facing internally. Stop, think about why you are doing it and seek help immediately.

If you want to save your marriage, its time you help yourself first. There is nothing wrong with you; it’s just that somewhere down the line, things didn’t work up the way it should have.

Talk to a friend or a professional counselor before this jealousy destroys you.

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