Why Women Dont Like It When Husbands Watch Porn

Posted on September 10, 2008 in Marriage Advice, Tips for A Husband, Tips for A Wife

Many husbands notice their wives losing their temper, every time they watch any kind of porn. There is an instant gratification when one watches beautiful naked women on screen. But have you wondered why your wife hates this behavior of yours? Have you tried talking out to her? If you continue to watch porn, this habit of pornography will ruin your marriage. Do you want to do something about it?

Before doing something about it lets understand why wives do not like their husband watching pornography

1) A wife would never like it if a man sexually looks at any other woman. In simple words, when other men look at your wife with that pervert gaze you find yourself boiling. Similarly you looking at another woman will cause your wife’s blood to boil.
2) A man watching porn gets excited and has sex for pleasure, whereas women view sex as a form of communication with their spouse. Therefore sexual life is negatively affected causing the woman great grief.
3) The children observe the father’s behavior no matter how secretly they do things and tend to repeat the same. The mother tries to protect the child from such negative influences and in turn tries to stop the husband from watching porn. According to many studies, in most of the cases children enter into negative sexual behavior if either of the parents is addicted to porn.
4) Men who watch porn are instantly satisfied and remain withdrawn from their wives. This is another reason why women hate it when their husbands watch porn.
Now that you know the reasons, avoid watching porn, instead spend time with your wife and get to know her better.

This will not only strengthen the bond between you two but will also bring you more happiness and joy.

Comments

6 Responses to “Why Women Dont Like It When Husbands Watch Porn”

  1. Rita on March 30th, 2009 9:24 am

    This information was very useful.
    Thank you.

  2. CJ on May 3rd, 2009 3:50 pm

    I am a woman and I agree. Not only was I deeply crushed when I found out my husband watched porn late at night while I was sleeping, pregnant with our second child, I wanted to die! I was mortified and the low self-esteem I already had became even worse. No wonder we didn’t have a sex life. We didn’t have much of one after our first child was born, even though I lost all the baby weight. Men are jerks. Even married ones.

  3. jeff on September 15th, 2009 2:38 pm

    many women hate sex. thats why the husbands watch porn.

  4. aby on September 28th, 2009 4:06 pm

    Women do NOT hate sex. You can bet on that. It’s like this article says..Women view sex as communication and probably also as the most vulnerable and intimate thing they could possibly do with another person. Telling your wife or sex partner that you love their body when you have sex and love looking at them BECAUSE it turns you on is a step. But you HAVE to be sensitive to their needs…don’t be a sex crazed pervert! All women are different and like it different ways. Don’t get mad at them..T A L K to them!

  5. Tara on October 16th, 2009 12:36 pm

    I don’t think men should have to stop watching porn. I watch porn myself (both alone and with my boyfriend). I do, however, think that men (and women too) should not get addicted to porn (or romance novels) to the point where it effects their relationship. Also, perhaps watch some porn with your wife which has realistic looking women (i.e. not ugly – just natural and not all teens). A lot of the time, it is threatening to a woman because all the porn women look so much better than us… Of course, they are fake and airbrushed, but it is still depressing.

  6. Vince on October 29th, 2009 1:38 am

    When Men live alone, porno is an alternate sex life, epecially when they cant find or afford a girlfriend or a house for a wife. When men do get into a relationship there is sex anytime and money doesnt mean anything to women supposedly. Then men are accused of getting the milk without buying the cow so they have to get married. Then the women have their claws in them and the sex decreases. They mother their men and men dont want to have sex with their mother. Sex is contingent on producing the children for the biological clock or keeping up with the joneses and their house and a car for her along with the presents and credit cards to keep her happy. Familiarity breeds contempt, women find a backup male in their life. Men find porno or a fling. If we love someone we should set them free not judge and blame them for our insecurity.

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