How To Stay Attracted To Husband Always

Posted on September 30, 2008 in Tips for A Wife

Do you keep wondering about what you saw in your husband that made you fall in love with him? What is it that really attracted him to you?

And why are things not the same. Why is it that you don’t feel the same towards him again? Where is all the love? Why is this man who was your love once upon a time simply just like another stranger?

What has happened that has caused this distance in the relationship?
 If these questions keep troubling you and are causing trouble, the following points will help you focus on your relationship and help you see the reasons why you fell in love with your husband.

These feelings can happen in a marriage if

1) You notice physical changes in your husband, i.e. he may have gone too fat and is hardly bothered about his appearance. You could talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.  You could both join a gym, get to shape and start too feel young and alive again. Also, remember that you like your husband have begun to age, and appearances do change after a point of time. So try looking for other special attributes in each other to stay in love.

2) This could also happen if you are having lot of arguments and misunderstanding. This could be dealt with a genuine open discussion and heart-heart talk.

3) It may also occur if you are too fed up of life and are projecting your boredom on your marriage. Try and do something exciting. Are you caught up in the rut of work-home-children-cooking-cleaning etc? And is it a continuous cycle. Well, you could overcome this by doing something different with your husband. Go for some dance classes or going for a holiday could help you change the way you think and may be you would realize that it is not your husband but your lifestyle that you were bored with.

Sometimes introspecting within would help us save lot of trouble. Try and find out the cause and work on it with the help of a friend/guide or counselor.

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