Reasons Why Men Leave Women

Posted on December 4, 2008 in Marriage Problems, Tips for A Wife

According to a research conducted, men tend to quit a relationship, not because of the “Woman”, who is their wife/girlfriend of many years but because of their conflicting emotions and feelings. Every time they feel uncertain and pressured up, they tend to seek freedom from what they have in the present. They are not reacting to the woman, but are responding to their own needs.

Men are of three types, and the reason why they break up from a relationship is also of three different types.

1)    One Who Goes In For Younger Women

Men under this category are ones who love to be adored, appreciated, loved and recognized. Mid marriage, wives tend to identify the flaws in their husbands and are least motivated to adore them. Instead, arguments and bickering tend to rule his day. These men then leave their wives and settle for someone younger.

Younger women, because they are the ones who like being looked after. Also, younger women adore the security an older man provides them with. They tend to adore, respect and look up to a older man. An older man feels young, alive and proud when he has a younger woman standing beside him.

Keeping up the motivation of the man of this type by appreciating him and not criticizing much can help the man stay on in the marriage.

2)    One Who Constantly Leaves And Hooks On To The Same Woman

The man in this category loves challenges. He’s constantly seeking out for new and exciting stuff to happen in his life. And when he notices the same woman coming back to him after a break up, he finds it very exciting. It’s challenging for him to win back her love, after he has hurt her. He goes out of his way to do something special for her, stands for hours in the rain, walks miles, calls a million times and once he has won her affection, goes back to his old ways and breaks up for some silly reason or the other.  This will continue to happen until the Woman says a final NO to this man.

3)    One Who Is Very Hard To Please

Men under this category are perfectionists and want their wives to be as good as their mothers. According to them “No One” can ever match up to the standards of their mother in cooking, dressing or in taking care.  Some on the other hand compare their wives to an ex, who died a early and sad death, and with one whom they could not live out their relationship. These men are very unrealistic and it would be better if the woman leaves the man before he leaves her.

So which category does your man belong to? If he belongs to any of the above three leave them as early as possible.

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