Why Some People Refuse To Get Married

Posted on January 9, 2009 in Marriage Advice, Marriage Problems, Marriage Proposals

Marriage is a beautiful bond between a man and a woman. However, many refuse to get married. They state that marriage is just not suitable for them. There are many reasons why they feel this way. There is a reason why they have developed this way of thinking. Instead of looking at them in a shocked and surprised way let us understand them by knowing the cause of these attitudes. Some of the causes as to why they develop this mindset are as follows.

1)    Past: Some would have earlier been on getting married. However, a negative experience, a broken heart, a failure in love etc would have made them aversive to marriage.

2)    Parents: Some would have had decided to not to get married because of their parents turbulent relationship. As a child they must have seen their parents always in conflict with each other and would have decided against getting married.

3)    Homosexuality: Some refuse to get married because society would not accept homosexual marriages. Certain cultures ostracize such relationships. However, some are in favor of such relationships. In certain cultures there is great pressure against such relationships. Certain individuals do not get married because they may fear they may ruin an individual’s life. For e.g. a gay in a very conservative society would refuse to get married to a woman as he wouldn’t want to ruin her life.

4)    Religious Vocations: Certain individuals dedicate their entire life to God the almighty and may consider the almighty as their spouse.

Whatever, be the reason, it is always advised to not force an individual to get married. Marriage is a choice, which an individual should make for himself/herself. A forced marriage will turn out to be a failure where lives of two individuals are ruined forever.

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