How Often Do You Say – Im Sorry for Blaming You – to Your Partner

Posted on October 14, 2009 in Marriage Advice

Divorce rates and Adultery are at all time high. Corporate life style do not provide an iota of chance to the couple for physical intimacy. There are tensions, routine jobs, fatigue and latent but potent sense of frustration inside us. Such un healthy life style patterns are becoming the norms of the day. Our priorities are promotions, perks, salary hikes and other materialistic targets amidst a cut throat competitive in the work place. There is no room for second chance or apology. Should it be the case in our relationships too ? How Often Do You Say – Im Sorry for Blaming You – to our loving partner.

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Expressing Apology is a Kind Gesture: In today’s world of changing values, expressing apology is not taken in good taste. It is considered next to weakness or defeat. People forget that we are humans. And committing mistakes is part of our evolving. Apology is a kind gesture invented by men to express the feeling of being sorry in a tasteful and decent way. It conquers hearts. And sets right relationships filled with resentments. This simple gesture is brutally replaced by mindless blame games in present times.

We Owe an Apology: We should be apologetic to a host of individuals in our lives. From our kids, spouse, in-laws, parents, friends ….. the list is endless. Our hectic life style do not provide us the chance to the damage caused to our relationships because of our erratic work schedules. But the usual response is unfortunately again the blame game. In marriage, frequent heartbreaks, resentments can be avoided if we use the magical words ” Im sorry for blaming you” appropriately while talking to our spouse. It is not that hard as imagined. Try it.

What it takes to say these words Sincerely: We may need courage to be apologetic these days. It is because the sense and the purpose of apology have become completely different. Initially, genuine thoughtfulness within us changes our perception about apology. Then the realization of its rightful placed in our lives follows. Later we are inspired to stop the blame game and say – ” Im sorry for blaming you”.

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